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Posted on 17-SEP-07
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Are you in favour of group showers?

Personally, if we had a shower big enough, then yes there would be some such showers but not always. There is no problem here as I can see.

To save on time and water, I have jumped in the shower shortly before the eldest kids hop out and vice versa. Saves on the water waste you get when you have to get the temperature just right.

If you can sit around naked, swim naked, eat naked...then you should be able to bathe together naked.
 
Yuppers Posted on 19-SEP-07
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Erica1967 write:
I wouldn't dream of showering with my teenage son. Close quarters like that make physical contact inevitable and I feel that's not appropriate.



Well, I did not mean squeezing into a tight space where you rub up against each other. No, I meant if there was enough space to be comfortable.

 
xxxxxxxxxxxx Posted on 19-SEP-07
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The Japanese have been bathing as families for centuries.

 
xxxxxxxxxxxx Posted on 20-SEP-07
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Common sense here. There are basically three types of showers: a) Individual (single person), b) Gang (Usually 10 or more people) and c) Bath Tub (Can fit two comfortably)

a) Common sense dictates one has not the space to uncomfortably shower with, let's say "Santa Claus" much less a male teen seething in hormonal puberty.

b) self explanatory

c) Common sense again. Personally, I use it for intimate acquaintances ONLY.
 
Yuppers Posted on 20-SEP-07
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You're 23 years old with a very young daughter so there's no way for you to know how a teen boy would react. But, seeing me nude is one thing. "Cleaning" each other as you suggest would be certain to create inappropriate results. Since we're both capable of cleaning ourselves, we'll just continue that way, thank you.



There's something I did not think of. Didn't think of cleaning each other but sharing the shower, not the soap.

 
walnuddad Posted on 22-SEP-07
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In most nudist/naturist families, bathing and showering together is quite common especially when the children are young. As the children get older, families adjust to maturing children's needs for privacy, as well as parents' concerns about sexuality. Mothers who have not established a healthy, non-sexual physical relationship with their sons in which kissing and hugging affectionately, but not sexually, is a normal and natural extension of their expressions of parental love, often feel uncomfortable because they fear they may stimulate the boys' sexual arousal. Rather than recognizing that young male teens are just as likely to be excited by a tree with a knothole, they feel showering together can result in their sons becoming sex crazed fiends or at least may cause the boys' to make a pass. For most naturist/nudist families, these things simply don't happen and the parents' fears are unfounded. Showering together is a pleasant pastime and a daily practical way to wash ourselves.
 
quadman15 Posted on 22-SEP-07
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i dont see there is any harm has long has there is muturial agreement ,that it is ok to see each other naked ,and if they was brought up naked i think it is normal to shower and bath together
 
mulemite Posted on 26-SEP-07
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I love the idea .... saves water & there is someone to wash your back!! Actually, I would think there should be no problem here. A true nudist isn't there to have sex (most of the time) & only there to get cleaned up. Always nice to help others reach the hard spots.
 
curlyxxx Posted on 28-SEP-07
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I see no problems with group showers. After all we think nothing about sitting around and swimming naked. After all it's nothing we haven't seen!! Plus it will help save water.
 
ruthless1 Posted on 30-SEP-07
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Hi,we are nudists,and spend alot of our time nude,but my husband will not shower or do anything physical with our 2 teenage daughters,wholly for the reason he doesnt want it to be misinterpreted by a slip of the tongue.With so many ppl prying into others ppls lifestyles,we are a bit paranoid,and he is less and less around now when they nude,which i think is sad,as nudism has been part of our life since we were dating 20 years ago.
 
Yuppers Posted on 30-SEP-07
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Hi,we are nudists,and spend alot of our time nude,but my husband will not shower or do anything physical with our 2 teenage daughters,wholly for the reason he doesnt want it to be misinterpreted by a slip of the tongue.With so many ppl prying into others ppls lifestyles,we are a bit paranoid,and he is less and less around now when they nude,which i think is sad,as nudism has been part of our life since we were dating 20 years ago.





I understand your husbands thinking. Such is modern society being scared of everything. If you can visit somewhere socially like a beach, then all the better.
 
Mavericknude Posted on 30-SEP-07
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Erica1967 write:
You're 23 years old with a very young daughter so there's no way for you to know how a teen boy would react. But, seeing me nude is one thing. "Cleaning" each other as you suggest would be certain to create inappropriate results. Since we're both capable of cleaning ourselves, we'll just continue that way, thank you.



I think I have to agree with you here a bit. I am all for showering together with friends and family as long as it is just that. Once being a young boy with raging hormones, I know what could be in his head. Although, maybe it is just me, but there are other issues if a teenage boy is getting turned on by his mom.

 
Yuppers Posted on 01-OCT-07
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beth_taylor_1970 write:
showers are the best place to initiate family members.
my son n i hav had our best sex in the shower.
:p





Gawwwd, sometimes it seems as if 'unconditional love' for a child nolonger exists. I hope the child was of legal age for I can't stand those who prey on children as young as 6yo, hiding behind the labels of love, etc.
 
Mavericknude Posted on 10-OCT-07
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Erica1967 write:
Maverick...communal showers are one thing. A small shower stall at home is quite another. As for there being "other issues", there aren't any...at least not to my knowledge. Other nudist friends with teen boys have the same reactions.



I don't have much experience with other nudist families so I assume that it could occur. Just never had those feelings towards mine. And I meant before, any kind of shower...communal or stall at home. As long as it is just to get clean, what is the problem?



 
Yuppers Posted on 12-OCT-07
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My 6yo has started to want showers with me. Two nights in a row and now she wants to alternate between her elder sister and myself. LOL
 
bigslut Posted on 12-OCT-07
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ilove family showers, we do it almost every day
 
BBare1 Posted on 15-OCT-07
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Well, when Nikki & I throw a weekend party at the house there are usually 4 or 6 of any given sexes in the shower(s) at any time of the night or day. The master bath shower will hold at least 5, six if you sqweeze together (lots of fun), and the other will hold 3 comfortabley. The outdoor shower off the deck is a "free-range" area and wil; wet-down at least 1/2 a dozen. Of course, this is all after many Marguaritas ! Ole'
 
becca18fl Posted on 19-OCT-07
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Erica, I totally agree with you on your last post...leave the "little ones" out of it, at least until they can make up their own mind, and thats not at the age of 10 either. Keep up the post girl.
Becca
 
baregirl Posted on 23-OCT-07
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I dont see group showers as a bad thing. Just look at school locker rooms. If the showers are big enuff that ppl can move around freely & not be crowded like a locker room then it might be ok. Granted locker rooms are all boys or all girls. It is bad if u'r looking for something u know is not right. If u'r trying to have them get u'r hard to reach spots then u'r in the wrong.
 
mackie763 Posted on 05-NOV-07
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this might be an old post but im new to the site. I was raised nudist. Family showers didn't occur that often after puberty. If we went camping the rv had a garden shower and sometimes we would rinse off together but thats about it.

Now that I'm older and exploring a sexual side, intamate showers are alot of fun but kept among the persons ment to be shared with.
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