Letter to those poor discriminated single males |
Jul 31, 2009 |
To a certain extent you guys tee me off with your persecution complex. So single males are excluded from admittedly a large number of "family" sun clubs. Just how really hard done by are you? Haven't you guys got any alternatives? Yes you have! Is your entire naturist life destroyed by this discrimination? No!
I am, like you, hit by the single male syndrome but for me, alone, it is terminal. Yet, I am hardly male, biologically neuter, a victim of your rule that shouldn't even apply to me. Now THAT is discrimination.
I have been begging, pleading and grovelling unsuccessfully for over a year to be allowed on to one of these naturist clubs' waiting list, let alone through the door, but I am still outcast because I am told there are 12, or 15, or 20 single males waiting and they are not taking any more.
But, on the fate of my soul, I swear that not one of you waiting single males' need for sunclub membership is as desperate as mine.
You see, if you are genuine single males, you have a sexual side, like everyone in the country bar me. If you cannot get into the sunclubs, or even if you can, there are always Eureka's hedonist parties, the group sessions at Rios or the body-elitist jaunts at naked clubs. Not for me! I have tried. I don't fit in! I cannot even comfortably visit Brighton Beach, what with the sexual cavorting of the minority and the stabbing glares of the rest. For me it is a true naturist environment or nothing! Right now it is nothing!
You wouldn't know what that means. While you, poor souls, are forced to tolerate the swingers parties and group sessions at the hedonist clubs I am stuck at home, nowhere to go. Because you are between me and my opiate, the naturist clubs, and complaining about it! They are just an extra to you; you don't really need them at all!
Look, guys, here is an analogy. For the past three weeks I have had ligament injuries which have made it difficult to walk without a stick. However, whenever I boarded a bus and the disabled seats were occupied by fit people, they always surrendered their seat. Why? Because they could easily stand, where I needed the seat and was unable to stand.
It was then that I realised, for all my usual fitness, how my anatomy really disables me socially. What is happening is a file of you single males are sprawled over the invalid seats on the sunclub waiting lists, when you could as easily stand at Eureka, Rios, Starkers, events where biologically I cannot stand for myself. You cry foul, yet you are wantonly hogging the seat I need to simply survive!
So why are you the victims?
You are not the ones effectively excluded from naturism because a perfectly eligible single male, who in reality has the world at his feet and when it is hardly a matter of life and death to him, is holding the ticket without which I have no naturist hope at all.
It is not your fault. I know it is not deliberate. But you really have nothing to gip about!
Being singled out and shut out is only really a tragedy if the victim has nowhere else to go!
Hugs, Will
I am, like you, hit by the single male syndrome but for me, alone, it is terminal. Yet, I am hardly male, biologically neuter, a victim of your rule that shouldn't even apply to me. Now THAT is discrimination.
I have been begging, pleading and grovelling unsuccessfully for over a year to be allowed on to one of these naturist clubs' waiting list, let alone through the door, but I am still outcast because I am told there are 12, or 15, or 20 single males waiting and they are not taking any more.
But, on the fate of my soul, I swear that not one of you waiting single males' need for sunclub membership is as desperate as mine.
You see, if you are genuine single males, you have a sexual side, like everyone in the country bar me. If you cannot get into the sunclubs, or even if you can, there are always Eureka's hedonist parties, the group sessions at Rios or the body-elitist jaunts at naked clubs. Not for me! I have tried. I don't fit in! I cannot even comfortably visit Brighton Beach, what with the sexual cavorting of the minority and the stabbing glares of the rest. For me it is a true naturist environment or nothing! Right now it is nothing!
You wouldn't know what that means. While you, poor souls, are forced to tolerate the swingers parties and group sessions at the hedonist clubs I am stuck at home, nowhere to go. Because you are between me and my opiate, the naturist clubs, and complaining about it! They are just an extra to you; you don't really need them at all!
Look, guys, here is an analogy. For the past three weeks I have had ligament injuries which have made it difficult to walk without a stick. However, whenever I boarded a bus and the disabled seats were occupied by fit people, they always surrendered their seat. Why? Because they could easily stand, where I needed the seat and was unable to stand.
It was then that I realised, for all my usual fitness, how my anatomy really disables me socially. What is happening is a file of you single males are sprawled over the invalid seats on the sunclub waiting lists, when you could as easily stand at Eureka, Rios, Starkers, events where biologically I cannot stand for myself. You cry foul, yet you are wantonly hogging the seat I need to simply survive!
So why are you the victims?
You are not the ones effectively excluded from naturism because a perfectly eligible single male, who in reality has the world at his feet and when it is hardly a matter of life and death to him, is holding the ticket without which I have no naturist hope at all.
It is not your fault. I know it is not deliberate. But you really have nothing to gip about!
Being singled out and shut out is only really a tragedy if the victim has nowhere else to go!
Hugs, Will
